A Thin Line between Love & Hate

"The lovers have a faith of their own, their only creed is love"-Rumi.Of course Rumi refers to all forms of love, the love u should be overwhelming everything and everyone with and not namely the intimate love that bonds a couple in such a sacred blessed union, marriage.

Though the amount of unconditional love one is willing to grant varies from one person to the other, the one thing we all agree upon based on the rules of simple physics is the coexistence and attraction force between the parody; positive and negative, male and female (the majority that is) black and white..and so goes the endless list of earths' most fascinating puzzles past unnoticed till we conclude it with another pair who go hand in hand..or fist to fist ...Love...and Hate.

Could the "too much of something" rule apply to Love&Hate as well?..Have u ever loved someone so intensely that the same energy that fed that spark ended up fuelling deadly flames of animosity towards the same exact person because of some act he/she may have performed either foolishly on on purpose? Bearing in mind it couldve been dropped pacificly if that person however was of less importance or occupied a much smaller space in ur being..excuses for those u dont care much about, hence: keepers..and none to those u care the most about..lose them forever with no remorse...makes very little sense to the mind and much to the heart...a wounded heart..a heart who loved dearly..who trusted..who rejoiced until its first stab; septal defect: reversal of blood flow..its payback time.

So how do we notice that red alert before it's too late and uve already joined forces with the rival forces? When does Hate suddenly surge within u? or was it already there living off wrongdoings to ur heart and flourishing discreetly?How do we kill the cancer? i should know better..we dont..we localize it..captivate it..but its still there.Thats understandable, but why is it sooo much easier for the human race to activate the 'hate" stores than those of "love'? why should we always hate our differences? hate people for being successful..then again hate them for being pathetically loserish...hate them out of spite, jealousy..etc. U love someone for being all u wished to be..then despise him for reflecting the image ull never get to see in a mirror.
We do love as well,wer not all that bad are we? we love for looks, money, success, pity, popularity, social security and how they make U feel..selfish..no..pathetic.

However it could work the other way round.U could hate someone so much that it could barely cross ur mind that u might lead a life without him being part of it.As sick as it may seem, it is true..ive seen cases

well todays post is kinda miserable..sorry about that..but the graver problem is WHEN?
when r we going to learn how to stop pickin fights with everybody and everything that moves? when will we abide by the teachings of God's guidance to us and master our stupid false pride?
time to surrender..surrender to His will not ours.